Fact or Fiction.

Thanks to Jitz, he has prompted this Note, with his thoughtful comment. So if you like it...Please thank (nandhi) him and if you didn't, then i apologise (maappuu) for wasting your precious time.



My recent profile status was to let all my friends & others not on my list to know, that i'm not ignoring them but a fact for the delay in response or none at all.

I used to spend my weekends replying to as many as I could but it's an impossible task with replies & new msgs flooding in constantly.

I accept friendship requests with...'FACE ON, NOT FACE OFF'.

I'm not here to Impress or Suppress, only to Express.

I've nothing to gain or gained by lies/deception in my life and not going to start now, on here, anywhere or ever.

It's not difficult to get these figures, especially for women on networking. For many it's curiosity and not the good of others or better themselves from learning, sharing or caring from this opportunity via networking.

Why do you think, there are so many fake identities here, especially by men pretending to be women? Classic one is Jayabharathi...
'The Golden Goddess of the Silverscreen'.

Q. Do you all think it's actually her account?

A. NO!!!

I'd informed many of my mutual friends to come off, as it's not her's but they're adamant to stay on. I've read msgs on her account from men telling her, how much they admire her.

Their fantasies....'Chechi, enikku ningallae orupadu ishtamaannu'.

Ningalude abhinayam, adipoli.

I dream about you.

Ningal oru ugran saadhanam thanae, chechi.

Chechi ennu, atho aunty ennu villikkatto?

Chechi kshemikoo, pakshe parrayathe irikkaan vayya...lol

OMG, the list goes on.(For my non malayalam speaking friends.
Someone has created a fake account in the name of famous south indian actress from the 70's & 80's. Thousands have joined her list in the belief it's her & have started writing to her about their sick fantasies.

It was funny to read but no longer has access to it because i've deleted the person responsible for that creation.

Don't know whether to laugh or cry but doing neither.

I shall refrain from naming & shaming any of them.

How sick...Guys, get a life. Poor Jayabharathi, if only she knew...what's going through your sick mind.

Not all women are cheap or here to witness or participate in your sick fantasies.

We've feelings too & want genuine friendship with both genders, networking is not an excuse or privilege to be violated.

I've randomly phoned friends here( too many to list), constantly in touch with them too via, fon, sms, email or fb. I prefer not to chat & way too many to deal with.
I've been fortunate to have met few recently.

FaceBook is just as good as Face2Face. We are human beings not robots.

So let's not get carried away & think you could abuse anyone here as you wish.

Please stop complaining for the lack of contact. We're all busy with our lives & treat this as a gift & appreciate it as such.